Charlie Kirk stood for something that seems increasingly rare in our world today: the power of debate. Known for his many college campus visits—where he debated students, professors, and others—Kirk made an effort to bridge the political divide and pursue the truth. Whether you agree with him or not, his practice of open debate was a healthy and respectable quality that benefited the country, especially its youth.
I’ve always been interested in his work, but lately, in his wake, I’ve spent hours watching his debates. What strikes me most is his openness. He set up on college campuses and sat for hours allowing the public to bring up anything to debate. Most of these discussions focused on topics such as abortion, immigration and the economy, but I’ve focused on what I believe are the three most important topics.
Faith
Kirk argued staunchly for the Christian faith. He sought not only to share his beliefs, but to evangelize those he debated. In a world focused on “winning” arguments and silencing opponents, Kirk remained direct and strong in his delivery. Yet, his goal was to bring the truth of the Gospels to light—not necessarily to win. He often told his opponents that he would pray for their change of heart.
In an interview with musician George Janko, Kirk shared the prayer he said before every college debate: “God, use me for your will.” A man with this level of conviction in the truth of Jesus Christ can be intimidating to those who disagree with him. Rather than conform to the societal norm that “religion isn’t cool,” Kirk remained unwavering in his faith and made his countercultural views known.
Family
A husband and father of two children, Kirk was a strong advocate for the family. He frequently emphasized that one of society’s biggest issues is the declining value placed on family. He believed the family is the most fundamental unit of society, and that serving it is among our first and foremost duties—second only to fulfilling God’s will. He often quoted Ephesians 5, urging husbands and wives to love and respect one another. Such love creates a nurturing environment in which to raise children.
Civil Debate
We will never live in a world where everyone agrees, which is why we must learn to navigate disagreement in a charitable and civil fashion. Kirk was a major proponent of open, respectful debate, and this was evident in his daily life. Too often today, people choose indifference over seeking truth and goodness. This not only leads to an uneducated public, but also to a society incapable of meaningful discussion. Civil discourse is being replaced by vulgar speech and efforts to silence opposing views, rather than by logical, reasoned argument. Kirk encouraged people to understand the arguments of others before responding with direct, fair counterpoints. At Priory, we take pride in our education. But perhaps we can still learn something from Charlie Kirk: the importance of civil debate in our society. Without it, we risk further division, violence and hatred. As we reflect on Kirk life and legacy, let us take pride not in our differences, but in our unity. “Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him.”
